Would you have a problem if the person you were in a relationship with had a fri!
Question: Would you have a problem if the person you were in a relationship with had a friend that you didnt like!?
would your opinion be different if the friend was of the same sex as you!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
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It depends on the reasons I didn't like the person!. If they just were not my type of person, I really can't say much!. I wouldn't want my guy to tell me who I can and cannot be friends with!. So I wouldn't do the same to him!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I expect the girl I choose to be with to at least respect the people that came into my life before her!. She doesn't have to like them, just respect them!. It's a way of showing respect to me, since my life comes as a package!. You dont get to pick and choose what you want!. That being said, I would do the same for her!. So, even though I may or may not like someone in her life, I would at least give them the benefit of the doubt for her sake!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Good question! I would have a problem if the "friend" was a guy!.
Hear me out!. Let's say the girl I was going out with was very attractive and very popular!. And she has this guy friend who is "always" there for her!. Chances are, I wouldn't like that at all!. Because I think it's difficult for a guy and girl (especially a hottie) to be good friends without the guy having a strong "interest" in her!.
Probably the only reason why the girl and the guy friend aren't dating is because the girl doesn't like him "that" way!. So the guy hangs around because it's better having her in his life as "friends" then not having her in his life at all!.
All the while, he's just waiting for an opening!.
So, I think this guy "friend" would try to dissuade her from me or any other guy she may want to date!.
Does that make any sense at all!? :-)Www@Enter-QA@Com
Hear me out!. Let's say the girl I was going out with was very attractive and very popular!. And she has this guy friend who is "always" there for her!. Chances are, I wouldn't like that at all!. Because I think it's difficult for a guy and girl (especially a hottie) to be good friends without the guy having a strong "interest" in her!.
Probably the only reason why the girl and the guy friend aren't dating is because the girl doesn't like him "that" way!. So the guy hangs around because it's better having her in his life as "friends" then not having her in his life at all!.
All the while, he's just waiting for an opening!.
So, I think this guy "friend" would try to dissuade her from me or any other guy she may want to date!.
Does that make any sense at all!? :-)Www@Enter-QA@Com
If the guy was good looking or attractive to her in some way I probably would have more of a problem with him!. I'm sure she and I would end up talking about the situation more than once!. ;-) If I just didn't like him, but he was just an arrogant eye sore then it wouldn't bother me!. Even if they hung out a lot!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I guess I would have to deal with it!. I would try to become friends with him/her!.
My husband hates one of my best girlfriends and let me tell you, it SUCKS! I can hardly talk to her without him making some snide comment!. I've known her a lot longer than I've known him and he just needs to deal with it already!. I'm not dropping her as a friend!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
My husband hates one of my best girlfriends and let me tell you, it SUCKS! I can hardly talk to her without him making some snide comment!. I've known her a lot longer than I've known him and he just needs to deal with it already!. I'm not dropping her as a friend!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I wouldn't care!.!.!.and no!.!.!.if the friend was a woman I still wouldn't care!. I wouldn't want my husband telling me who to be friends with!.!.!.so I wouldn't tell him!.!.!.of course there are exceptions!.!.is this friend a criminal!? drug addict!? something major like that I might say something!.!.but just a general dislike I would overlook!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm too old for that!. I am in a relationship with my G/F not the friend!.
If the friend tried to interfere in my relationship that is a different story!. He would be fitted for cement shoes for a walk on the bottom of the East River!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
If the friend tried to interfere in my relationship that is a different story!. He would be fitted for cement shoes for a walk on the bottom of the East River!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Been there, done that!. Basically, it's her friend and as long as I don't have to deal with him or her, I'm fine!. Gender doesn't matter, as our relationship is pretty solid and trusting -- I don't feel threatened!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
To have a good relationship you have to have TRUST!. So I would have to trust my partner and respect her feelings!. She can have any friend she wants!. That also means so can I!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It's a bad situation cause you know us women could be rather catty at times, unless you know for certain that you're that persons number 1 then i'd steer clear!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It depends on why I didn't like him!. But yeah, a big problem if she was a she!Www@Enter-QA@Com
yes, I would have more of a problem with a male friend than my wife's female friendWww@Enter-QA@Com
we all have situations like this no one likes everybody friendsWww@Enter-QA@Com